• Living

    Hello.

    Hi there. It’s been awhile. I’m still unsure of how to proceed in the moment, as far as regular “programming” goes, but I wanted to speak up about the topic that’s been top of mind lately for many of us, and that is the inequality and racism that BIPOC people face. I know that I’ve been guilty of being judgmental toward people (of all kinds, including my own) throughout my life. As much as I want to say I’ve never been influenced by negative (false)…

  • Living

    A Note from Self-Imposed Isolation

    Weird times we’re in. I had originally planned a post for last week. But I’d had a job interview that went well and preoccupied me all weekend, and then I found out on Monday that I got the job! And we all know what happened ’round the world since then. So the post I’d planned no longer felt appropriate. Honestly, I’m not sure what kind of post would suit these days. I’m enjoying the content on my favorite bloggers’ and Instagrammers’ pages, and I do…

  • Style

    March Lusts List

    Remember in October when I said I hoped to publish a regular lusts list? It wasn’t so regular, was it? I figured it was time for one after some posts that were on the more serious side. Besides, with the air turning warmer (here in LA, at least), spring is in the air, and with that comes a desire for a refresh—of self and of home. Here are some of my favorites for March. Let me know what you think of them, and what’s inspiring…

  • Living

    Untethered and Longing to Belong While Unemployed

    I’m warning you now. I’m grumpy. My life has been filled with uncertainty since I was laid off in September. Turns out that I desire routine, purpose, social contact and—who knew?—financial stability. The resulting stress has caused me back pain and a clenched jaw, in addition to some low-grade depression. Last week I returned from a short trip back to Philly to visit my family, and also went to Brooklyn overnight to spend time with my best friend and her family. All of this time…

  • Living,  Style

    Color & Mood: Rose-Colored Everything

    Maybe it’s because of Valentine’s Day. Or hints of (or wishes for) spring’s arrival. But around this time of year, I am attracted to all things pink. Pink clothes, pink makeup, pink decor, pink sunsets. I even find appealing items that are pink in “feeling”—rose perfume, sweet, sugary desserts and fluffy, marshmallowy blankets. Pink is an instant mood improver. Pink has long been associated not only with femininity, but with positivity, aka “rose-colored glasses.” There’s something about this hue that makes anything it touches seem…

  • Living

    Defying Categories in a World That Wants to Label You

    Recently I’ve been struggling to categorize myself. I don’t mean in the single-white-late-40s-Jewish way. I mean in the will-I-ever-figure-out-what-I-want-to-do-with-my-life-even-though-I’m-nearly-50 way. Defining myself always seemed so important. But does it have to be? I love the podcast “Invisibilia,” which deals with investigations into the things that can’t been seen. Some of the episodes have stayed with me long after I first listened to them. One is about categories. I learned from this episode that one reason why some people struggle with accepting things they can’t understand…

  • Style

    When a Lipstick Is More Than a Lipstick

    You’ve probably read about or experienced the mood lift that can come from swiping on a bright red lipstick. Whenever I wear mine, I feel energized, instantly put-together, and confident. Recently, I’ve been wearing a slightly more orangey shade of the red I usually wear. It’s a color I have a hard time pulling off when I have a tan. So this time of year, when I’m at my palest, is the best time for me to wear it. When I wore this lipstick, I…

  • Living

    Getting Through the Post-Holiday Slump

    January can be a let-down of a month. The celebrations and gift-giving have passed. My calendar is wide-open. I’m faced with the expansive year before me, one filled with unknowns. I’m working a freelance job while searching for a permanent one. I have no major vacations planned. No major social events on my calendar. I can leave it that way. Recuperate from all of December’s activity. Clean out my cabinets. Wash my dingy walls. All of which I’ll do. But I also plan to inject…

  • Living

    The Problem with How We Perceive Goals

    I’m jumping off of last week’s post and continuing my rant against traditional thoughts about resolutions, goal-setting, and achievement. I understand and have felt the euphoria that comes with the sense of completion. I’ve also felt desolation as a result of not meeting a self-imposed deadline. Here are a couple paradoxes I’ve discovered: Completion is often a concept instead of a reality (unless you’re talking about making dinner, cleaning the bathroom or putting together an IKEA dresser). And often even when you think you haven’t…

  • Living

    New Year’s Eve, or a Countdown to More of the Same

    I’m going to be embarrassingly honest here. As much as I like to share what I discover and learn with you, a lot of the time, when I write it’s to remind myself of what I already know. Today’s post is a prime example of this. The holidays are almost over, and I’m feeling pretty down about it. I love the time leading up to the festivities, filled with warm decorations, permission to dress in silly sweaters, and a devil-may-care attitude about indulgences. On January…